Monday, August 19, 2013

Heart and Harp Strings - Dream Interpretation

Heart and harp sound alike don't they? When you see a harp in a dream, it can be a pun for the heart, especially if it is shaped sortof like a heart.

We often talk about topics that play on our 'heart strings', things that touch us, like music, a sad storage, a poem, a dancer.

Art and music can speak on a level that words and intellect do not, so there is a strong link between music and our emotions. What better symbol for the heart than a musical instrument?

This is  drawing of a harp that I saw in my dream, where the strings were unusual - they were made of twine, knotted at intervals. And I take it symbol of the way the strings of our heart are woven permanently and securely to the people that we love. The strings are impossible to unknot because the knots are tight. They cannot be broken because of the multiple, heavy strands.


This image is a drawing of a small harp. It's strings are made of twine and actually firmly knotted together.
Harp with Entwined Strings
It is pretty amazing that my inner Self create such a unique image for me. I think when a dream conjures an image entirely unique which does not actually exist in the world, then the dream is carrying a powerful message. It will be something especially for you, something that is very important at this time in your life, something you should work through carefully to get the full interpretation. You may come back to the dream many times before you understand the image fully and there may be several messages condensed into a single image.

Why Do I need to Understand More about Heart Strings?


I guess the reason for this dream at this time, is that I've struggled with my parents recent deaths. I have at times felt that my heart really did break, that I was completely shattered.

One is never supposed to feel like that, right? That life is cruel, that this is unacceptable, that this is so wrong and unfair. If one had a heart of stone, nothing could touch us. But what if our heart is just a little delicate thing like a wooden harp, easily chipped and broken, subject to being sat upon?

Heart Questions


So, I continually ask myself, what stage of grief am I in now? When will it be over so I can move one? When will I have energy for anything besides dealing with this loss? Will I feel normal again?

How does the Hearth String Image answer some of those questions?


A. Grief itself does not exactly end. It does not fit readily into stages. It is more circular - I make some progress, take some steps, yet an something happens that draws me back. That is normal and natural, even necessary. Why? Because I am literally still tied to the person I lost. My heart strings did not break loose and they are not going to. I am literally bound to people I love. I am entwined, over and through, under, before, behind, and with my Mom and Dad. So, be it.

A. The good news is that I am still bound to my parents. Nothing can break that bond, even death. There are many blessings in being entwined with some really good people. I can still pull examples and life lessons, sometimes learn new things about them, feel their support.

And do we really want to untie the heart strings? I think I don't. I think I will continue to let the strings wind around and through the hearts of the people I love. I think it will be OK.

Leave a note or comment if you like, I would love to hear from you.


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Wednesday, August 7, 2013

Butterfly and the Web

The Butterfly


The Butterfly that show up in my dreams was a captive in a spider web and really needed to escape. In the dream the message was very clear. That was the entire image and message of the dream. There was nothing more.

Usually if there is just one image, there will be a lot of meaning packed in there. It is as if my Unconscious mind has searched for just the right image, entirely unique, to exactly illustrate my situation.


Colorful drawing of a circular spider web with a butterfly captured in it
Butterfly Caught in a Spider Web
 
So, that causes one to stop and think, right?

Beautiful and Free


So what was interesting about the dream?

The image of the butterfly. Of course, I'm the butterfly, a lovely image. In what ways is that true?

I'm on life's journey.

I'm one of natures most beautiful and colorful creatures.

I am directed by instincts and choices.

I don't have the zooming speed or directness of a bee, but the loping, generally awkward flight of a butterfly. But a butterfly manages to get to their destination somehow.

The butterfly is also a free creature, not bound by international boundaries or time zones. It very much goes its own way. There might be others around and it might migrate with a lot of other butterflies, but generally it looks after itself.

And the web?


Why does it look like a dream catcher? Do I need bigger dreams? new dreams? new direction?

What else is sticky and holding me back? What are the cobwebs that need clearing.

When I get an image like this, I will think about it a while, write some things down, come back later and think again. There can be layers and multiple ideas captured in even a small image like this.

What is interesting is that I believe this is a personal image that was inspired directly by the song 'King of Pain' by The Police. In 'King of Pain' I hear an artist's despair over the vastness of the pain in the world, which we can't ignore, even it we would like too. We also cannot ignore the sources of our own pain, which surely exist. Sometimes there is a remedy, and action we can take. And sometimes there is not.

I would like to hear your thoughts about the blog. Was this helpful? Interesting? Can you relate to it?


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Saturday, August 3, 2013

So You Wanna Be a Baseball Mom!

So, you want to be a Baseball Mom? To be sure its a dream position, head of baseball fanaticism for your family. A position that inspires affection, appreciation, sometimes irritation.

First of all, why do it? Well if your son or daughter loves the game, you'll be out there at the fields for practices and early and late games, all spring, summer and fall. So you might as well enjoy it!

I mean, why be that mom that is playing games on her iPhone, talking to her friends, or reading a book? Why not invest your heart in your kid and the things that make him happy?




Here's how to do it...
  • Most important step, wear the team colors!
  • Bring water, snacks and Gaterade
  • Learn the rules, so ask some questions
  • Take Friday off before tournament weekends - sleep in on Friday and get all your stuff done, so you can enjoy the weekend schedule more.
  • Get your kid flip flops so he can take off his cleats between games
When you start doing all these things, your family will definitely notice and appreciate your support.

That's what it's about, right?

Your kid knows that they have somebody in the stands that loves them no matter what.

If they strike out 3 times, if they miss a tag, you are still on their side. And it's not going to ever change. That is why in addition to everything else, I'm a Baseball Mom.

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